Wine for Wickets!

We hosted our second big wine tasting and it was a HUGE success! We are so excited! Vilakazi raised more than $2,000, which is $800 more than last time. We are so, so humbled by our friends and their generosity. It was really special. We have the best board in the world, and they work so hard for our mission. The wine pull, the auction, the tasting - it was all great. And, not to mention, it was a super fun party. To so many people, things like this aren't that big of a deal. But to the children we'll help this summer, it's a really big deal. And just for a reminder, this is what donations did for children in 2010:

Partaaay

So today was the big party. Mia, of course, probably didn't know it was her birthday party. I'm pretty sure she was just excited about the playground equipment.

We packed up the coolers and Mia helped.

Then she demanded that Leigh's dad help her carry one of the coolers all over the yard.
We celebrated with lots of good friends. Once again we had a decorate-your-own-cupcake station. Mia decorated three.



Then she enjoyed her own cupcake - the world's best cupcake ever. Our friend Alison, who is an absolutely baking superstar, made her a cake in the shape of the Arcadia Round Barn, which is a Route 66 icon in Oklahoma.

Then, we opened presents. Because even if you tell people that they don't have to bring presents, they bring presents. To be fair, shopping for a 2-year-old is pretty fun. Mia got tons of board books, which is fantastic. She wants to turn the pages and we've lost a few paper books that way. (If you try to turn the pages when she wants to, she'll quickly say, "No. Stop, mama." She also got some cute clothes and fun toys.

It was such a fun day, but I still can't believe she's 2. Remember when she was a teeny-tiny baby?

A big day for Vilakazi

Today was a big day for Vilakazi. As some of you may or may not know, the foundation Leigh and I started earned its official 501(c)3 status a few weeks ago. It was an exciting day after nearly two years of hard work by our amazing board, volunteers and supporters! After that, we felt a little adrift. We'd been shooting for our 501(c)3 goal for so long, it was strange actually achieving it.

So we took time Saturday to have our first ever board retreat. We didn't really retreat anywhere. We actually just went to my office. Our fantastic friend, Kelli Dupuy, was our facilitator and we accomplished so much! We talked about board development, goal setting and fundraising for the next year. We've set a lofty goal for ourselves, but it's going to be so exciting when we reach it! We're going to help hundreds - hundreds! - of South African children next summer. (I hope you will all be a part of it!)


After spending all day together, we decided it would be great to spend even MORE time together. Some of our board members joined up with a few friends to play in this annual trivia night fundraiser that benefits an Oklahoma nonprofit that works to prevent teen pregnancy. (Boy, do we need this group in Oklahoma!) Our team finished FOURTH out of 48 teams! It was incredible, if not overly competitive. We also finished fourth last year. Next year we're totally winning medals. Or stealing medals. Whatever.

It might sound cliche, but Leigh and I count our blessings every day. We have the most amazing friends!

Garage sale time!

It was time for our annual Vilakazi garage sale, and the second annual might be the last annual. It. Was. Hot. But we made more than $500, which was great!

We spent forever - forever! - pricing things. We were so lucky to have our fantastic board and fabulous volunteers, Jenni and Darla.


Moving everything outside then back and then out and back again was exhausting. But remember, it's all for the children!


Speaking of children, at least one child was grateful for the garage sale. Mia enjoyed touching pretty much everything and wearing lanyards.

Tiny rock star

Today Leigh, Kimball and Reaves spent all day picking up donations for our Vilakazi garage sale. Of course, we ended up spending $25 already. Great. But the best purchase was this:

S'more s'mores

We went to the best food party of the year: Soup and S'mores! Jenni and Ryan make all kinds of soups and then we make s'mores outside. Fantastic. Leigh gets quite excited about this. Why? Because South Africans don't have s'mores. They have lots of good things, but this isn't one of them. So sad. So we ate and ate and ate. Oh. And hung out with friends and stuff. That was nice, too.

Rock-paper-scissors-fundraise!

Our first Rock-Paper-Scissors tournament was amazing! We had 35 competitors and raised $1,100 for Vilakazi! Last night was so, so, so much fun.

Leigh and I pose with the trophy, which I made. If I do say so myself, it's pretty awesome.


Kelli and Andrew go for it all in the final round.


Leigh hands Kelli the trophy after she won it all!

Our board is so, so, so amazing. I can't believe how lucky we are.

Ikhaya Labantwana Montessori

All the hard work of our friends and volunteers paid off today with a parade of children wearing tiny rain boots. 

We took our donations up to Ikhaya Labantwana Montessori today. (Check out what they wrote on their blog about us!) We took a ton of stuff to them. It was a long journey: 20 hours of flying, 13 hours of driving and then a final hike up the hill from our hostel to the school. Let me just say that the most daunting part was the hill. It was like climbing Mount Everest. We carried all the stuff plus Mia. It was a couple hundred yards and took a couple hundred hours. When we walked through the gate it was so exciting.

All the little ones were running around outside after having finished their snacks. They were screaming, rolling and playing all over the place. Oh, recess. It's universal. Dawn, the teacher, greeted us and we moved everything into the school, which is a rondavel built out of mud bricks and a reed roof. It looks small outside but it's a wonder inside. Everything is immaculately clean and organized, and Dawn has worked very hard to create/find/buy all kinds of learning tools. It's really impressive. 

We discussed our donation with Dawn. The toothbrushes, toothpaste and vitamins would be kept at the school so they wouldn't be lost or taken by someone else. The students would brush their teeth and take their vitamins at school and would take vitamins home for the weekends. The school would keep the books, puzzle and a soccer ball. Each child would receive a pair of rain boots and extras would be saved for children in the future. 

The students came indoors and it was activity time. Each of them had to pick something to do and work on it for a bit. There were only nine students at school that day - the others were sick, unfortunately. But for that many 3-, 4- and 5-year-olds in one hut, the class was surprisingly calm. They all picked up activities, which were carefully separated onto trays, and went to work. They did all the regular things you'd imagine would be going on at a preschool, like practicing numbers. But they also did real-life practical skills, like using a spoon to move seeds from one bowl to another. It was so neat to watch tiny hands practice using a spoon or a sponge or a rolling pin for play-dough. They painted and counted and organized blocks. They were content and diligent. It was a sight to see. 

Dawn worked with one little girl who was working with a stack of numbered squares. She'd ask the girl to find the eight, and the girl would point to the eight, with a wide smile and wide eyes. She was so proud to pick out the number on her own. Dawn asked her to find seven. The children sitting closest stopped their activities, held up seven fingers and smiled like they'd won the lotto. "There are seven!" they sang. Dawn explained that they have a song about the days of the week and it's one of the kids' favorites. She had to calm everybody down with the promise that they'd get to sing the song at the end of the afternoon. I couldn't wait to hear it! 

After they finished activity time, it was circle time. They walked around the room on a piece of tape in the shape of a circle. Everyone quieted down and prepared for the end of the day. Dawn told them to stop and they could sit where they stood. She told one little girl not to push another. "But she's too close," the girl explained. "Then say, 'Could you move, please? You're in my bubble,'" Dawn said. The tiny girl faced her friend: "Could you move, please? You're in my bubble." The children sat and talked about what day, month and year it was. Then they sang the days of the week song. Actually, it was more of shouting than singing. It was clearly the children's favorite; they were awfully excited. 

After some more songs and a book, it was time to hand out the rain boots. Each child could have a pair to keep. Dawn asked us if we'd like to shake the children's hands or give them hugs or do something else. We said we could hand the boots out however she liked. "I've never done anything like this before," Dawn said. "Neither have we," we said. So we decided that each child could get a pair of boots and would give me a hug - something that not all children get as often as they should. 

One at a time the children came up to me as a sit in one of the child-sized chairs in the hut. I handed over a pair of black rain boots to stoic little faces. Some hugged me, others shied away. A couple shook my hand. It was pretty formal but still really nice. They were so sweet. After they got their boots, the children took them to Dawn, who wrote their names on the inside. I looked over at her table and the children were ecstatic. When they picked up the boots from me, they didn't really smile. They whispered thank you. But when they were around an adult they knew, they were beside themselves with joy. It was awesome. 

After Dawn wrote their names on the shoes, they all rushed back to the circle and put their boots on. They giggled and talked in Xhosa with distinctive clicks. 

It was the end of their school day, and Dawn gave them directions on how to leave the hut. Today they'd tiptoe up to the doorway and then sprint out onto the grounds. This was immensely fun, and they were already smiling because of their shoes. As soon as they hit the doorway they screamed and ran wild. As the last of the children ran out of the school, they all began to stomp in their new boots. Stomping is especially fun in boots. Then they all got into a parade and stomped around one of the garden beds. They swung their arms and smiled. It was absolutely wonderful. 

While hiking up that hill, I was wondering if this even mattered. We came from so far just to deliver some rain boots. Was this worth the million-mile journey? Yes. Absolutely. No one else was going to give these kids boots, and they needed them. It was the best feeling in the world. 

Thank you so much to our friends, family, donors and especially our board - Traci Dodderer Bentley, Chad Previch, Michael Kimball, Susanne soon-to-be Kimball and Ryan Reaves. Everyone's generosity and hard work paid off in ways we can't understand. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Soup and Smores

Our pals - Jenni Carlson Reaves and Ryan Reaves - hosted their super fun soup and smores party. (Thank you, Alison Lowe, for the fabulous photos!) We took Mia with and she had a great time hanging out with all kinds of people. She didn't cry or get fussy, but she did need a wardrobe change midway through. That's when we discovered not only did we not bring diapers, but we also forgot to bring a onesie. We had a jumper, pajamas and a pair of pants. This does not an outfit make. So she had to go sans onesie and leave on the pants and sweater. She was like a flasher in a trench coat, but she's still not coordinated enough to unbutton her shirt and flash. Thank god.